"Befuck" offers something modern therapy-speak cannot: a sense of humor about the disaster. It acknowledges that things have gone wrong in a way that is almost impressive in its totality. It sounds aggressive, yet it is oddly cathartic to say aloud.
A 2003 issue of CMJ New Music Report used the present participle form to describe a chaotic sound, noting guitars "befucking all notions of scale and timbre" . Regional Variations (South Africa) befuck
It is the perfect linguistic tool for those moments when life hasn't just happened to you; life has taken you apart piece by piece and put you back together upside down. befuck